Wayne Dyer Quotes & Wayne Dyer Sayings

A mind at peace, a mind centered and not focused on harming others, is stronger than any physical force in the universe. Abundance is not something we acquire. It is something we tune into. All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy. Anything inside that immobilizes me, gets in my way, keeps me from my goals, is all mine. Anything that has been accomplished by any other human being in the physical realm is within the field of possibility. Arguing is really saying, As you think so shall you be! Since you cannot physically experience another person, you can only experience them in your mind. Conclusion: All of the other people in your life are simply thoughts in your mind. Not physical beings to you, but thoughts. Your relationships are all in how you think about the other people of your life. Your experience of all those people is only in your mind. Your feelings about your lovers come from your thoughts. For example, they may in fact behave in ways that you find offensive. However, your relationship to them when they behave offensively is not determined by their behavior, it is determined only by how you choose to relate to that behavior. Their actions are theirs, you cannot own them, you cannot be them, you can only process them in your mind. Authentic empowerment is the knowing that you are on purpose, doing God's work, peacefully and harmoniously. Be miserable. Or motivate yourself. Whatever has to be done, it's always your choice. Begin to see yourself as a soul with a body rather than a body with a soul. Conflict cannot survive without your participation. Deficiency motivation doesn't work. It will lead to a life-long pursuit of try to fix me. Learn to appreciate what you have and where and who you are. Did you ever notice how difficult it is to argue with someone who is not obsessed with being right? Everything in the universe has a purpose. Indeed, the invisible intelligence that flows through everything in a purposeful fashion is also flowing through you. Everything is perfect in the universe - even your desire to improve it. Everything you need you already have. You are complete right now, you are a whole, total person, not an apprentice person on the way to someplace else. Freedom means you are unobstructed in living your life as you choose. Anything less is a form of slavery. Give love and unconditional acceptance to those you encounter, and notice what happens. Go for it now. The future is promised to no one. How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours. I cannot always control what goes on outside. But I can always control what goes on inside. I think and that is all that I am. If I could define enlightenment briefly I would say it is ''the quiet acceptance of what is.'' If we are to have magical bodies, we must have magical minds. If you are living out of a sense of obligation you are slave. If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. In any relationship in which two people become one, the end result is two half people It is impossible for you to be angry and laugh at the same time. Anger and laughter are mutually exclusive and you have the poser to choose either. It makes no sense to worry about things you have no control over because there's nothing you can do about them, and why worry about things you do control? The activity of worrying keeps you immobilized. It's never crowded along the extra mile. Judgements prevent us from seeing the good that lies beyond appearances. Live one day at a time emphasizing ethics rather than rules. Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what they choose for themselves without any insistence that they satisfy you. Loving people live in a loving world. Hostile people live in a hostile world. Loving people live in a loving world. Hostile people live in a hostile world. Same world. Maxim for life: You get treated in life the way you teach people to treat you. Miracles come in moments. Be ready and willing. Now is all we have. Everything that has ever happened to you, and anything that is ever going to happen to you, is just a thought. One of the most responsible things you can do as an adult is to become more of a child. Only the insecure strive for security. Our intention creates our reality. Our lives are a sum total of the choices we have made. People who want the most approval get the least and people who need approval the least get the most. Present-moment living, getting in touch with your now, is at the heart of effective living. When you think about it, there really is no other moment you can live. Now is all there is, and the future is just another present moment to live when it arrives. Real magic in relationships means an absence of judgment of others. Relationships based on obligation lack dignity. Self-actualized people are independent of the good opinion of others. Self-worth comes from one thing -- thinking that you are worthy. Simply put, you believe that things or people make you unhappy, but this is not accurate. You make yourself unhappy. Softly and kindly remind yourself, ''I cannot own anything.'' It is a valuable thought to keep in mind as you struggle to improve your financial picture, worry about investments, and plan how to acquire more and more. It is a universal principle which you are part of. You must release everything when you truly awaken. Are you letting your life go by in frustration and worry over not having enough? If so, relax and remember that you only get what you have for a short period of time. When you awaken you will see the folly of being attached to anything. Stop acting as if life is a rehearsal. Live this day as if it were your last. The past is over and gone. The future is not guaranteed. Successful people make money. It's not that people who make money become successful, but that successful people attract money. They bring success to what they do. The components of anxiety, stress, fear, and anger do not exist independently of you in the world. They simply do not exist in the physical world, even though we talk about them as if they do. The concept of boredom entails an inability to use up present moments in a personally fulfilling way. The fact that you are willing to say, ''I do not understand, and it is fine,'' is the greatest understanding you could exhibit. The highest form of ignorance is when you reject something you don't know anything about. The measure of your life will not be in what you accumulate, but in what you give away. There is a big difference between thinking: I'm in a relationship and something's wrong. Therefore something must be wrong with the relationship. and thinking I'm in a relationship and we've got problems. This is evidence that you are different than me. There is no scarcity of opportunity to make a living at what you love; there's only scarcity of resolve to make it happen. There is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way. There is no way to prosperity, prosperity is the way. There's nothing wrong with anger provided you use it constructively. Transformation literally means going beyond your form. We are Divine enough to ask and we are important enough to receive. We become what we think about all day long. The question is, 'What do you think about?' What comes out of you when you are squeezed is what is inside of you. What we think determines what happens to us, so if we want to change our lives, we need to stretch our minds. When I chased after money, I never had enough. When I got my life on purpose and focused on giving of myself and everything that arrived into my life, then I was prosperous. When you dance, your purpose is not to get to a certain place on the floor. It's to enjoy each step along the way. When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself. You are always a valuable, worthwhile human being -- not because anybody says so, not because you're successful, not because you make a lot of money -- but because you decide to believe it and for no other reason. You are important enough to ask and you are blessed enough to receive back. You can set yourself up to be sick, or you can choose to stay well. You can't choose up sides on a round world. You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. You leave old habits behind by starting out with the thought, 'I release the need for this in my life'. You'll see it when you believe it. You'll seldom experience regret for anything that you've done. It is what you haven't done that will torment you. The message, therefore, is clear. Do it! Develop an appreciation for the present moment. Seize every second of your life and savor it. Value your present moments. Using them up in any self-defeating ways means you've lost them forever. Your children will see what you're all about by what you live rather than what you say.